One part science of science, one part magic, and one part real talk for busy parents (of all identities) who want to find the play and the sexy in their couple connection after kids

New Episodes Every Tuesday

We dish...

  • Dispatches from the bedroom

  • Tips and tools to get grounded into your pleasure

  • My fave tools for connecting with each other post kids

  • Info and inspiration to help you figure out what’s got you in a sexual stalemate and how to get out of it

  • No judgement advice for all partners

Recent Episodes

The Sex After Kids Podcast

When You Keep Initiating and She Keeps Pulling Away

When You Keep Initiating and She Keeps Pulling Away

If you've been told "Stop asking, you’re pressuring me", it can feel like rejection - or worse, shame. But you're not broken or needy. You're reaching for connection the only way you know how. On this week's episode, we dive deep into this feeling.

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Your Partner's in Perimenopause? Why Your Flirting Isn't Working

Your Partner's in Perimenopause? Why Your Flirting Isn't Working

Let’s be honest. If you're the one with the higher libido, you know the feeling all too well: the flutter of hope when you reach out, followed by the crushing weight of rejection. But what if I told you the "no" has almost nothing to do with you? All on this week's episode of the Sex After Kids Podcast!

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Perimenopause & Libido: A guide for you and your partner

Perimenopause & Libido: A guide for you and your partner

Perimenopause comes in hot with hormonal chaos, body changes, and so many reasons to hit the brakes on intimacy. This week on the Sex After Kids Podcast, we're continuing our perimenopause series!

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Perimenopause is Wrecking Our Sex Life — What Now?

Perimenopause is Wrecking Our Sex Life — What Now?

Is perimenopause slowly turning your sex life into a roommate situation? In this episode, we're kicking off our perimenopause + Intimacy series and talking about what’s actually going on during this "second puberty"

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Sex or Stress? How to Tell When It’s Really a “No” and When It’s Not

Sex or Stress? How to Tell When It’s Really a “No” and When It’s Not

Do you mistake stress or tiredness for a hard no when it comes to intimacy? In this episode, I unpack the “traffic lights” of the nervous system and how to stop defaulting to NO—so you can discover more ways to say yes to connection after kids.

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Ready for More Fun, Play, and Connection? An Invitation to The Naked Fun Comeback™

Ready for More Fun, Play, and Connection? An Invitation to The Naked Fun Comeback™

In this week's episode of the Sex After Kids Podcast, I talk about my signature program, The Naked Fun Comeback™. You deserve better, and you don't have to settle for a disconnected, awkward, or pressure-filled sex life.

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