One part science of science, one part magic, and one part real talk for busy parents (of all identities) who want to find the play and the sexy in their couple connection after kids

New Episodes Every Tuesday

We dish...

  • Dispatches from the bedroom

  • Tips and tools to get grounded into your pleasure

  • My fave tools for connecting with each other post kids

  • Info and inspiration to help you figure out what’s got you in a sexual stalemate and how to get out of it

  • No judgement advice for all partners

Recent Episodes

The Sex After Kids Podcast

Sex or Stress? How to Tell When It’s Really a “No” and When It’s Not

Sex or Stress? How to Tell When It’s Really a “No” and When It’s Not

Do you mistake stress or tiredness for a hard no when it comes to intimacy? In this episode, I unpack the “traffic lights” of the nervous system and how to stop defaulting to NO—so you can discover more ways to say yes to connection after kids.

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Ready for More Fun, Play, and Connection? An Invitation to The Naked Fun Comeback™

Ready for More Fun, Play, and Connection? An Invitation to The Naked Fun Comeback™

In this week's episode of the Sex After Kids Podcast, I talk about my signature program, The Naked Fun Comeback™. You deserve better, and you don't have to settle for a disconnected, awkward, or pressure-filled sex life.

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A Sensorium Date Night

A Sensorium Date Night

Save this one for Saturday night. Follow along during this guided date and see where the evening takes you. In this episode of the Sex After Kids Podcast I share a guided date night experience from the Sex After Kids Summit Vault.

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Sex Coach vs. Couples Counselling: Which Is Right for You?

Sex Coach vs. Couples Counselling: Which Is Right for You?

Wondering if you need a sex coach, a couples counsellor, or both? I share my honest take on how each one can help, what most couples are really feeling (and why), and why it’s not about “fixing” you or your partner—but learning new skills together.

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Sexless Marriage: How to Save Your Relationship Before Divorce

Sexless Marriage: How to Save Your Relationship Before Divorce

If you’re even flirting with the D-word—even in your head—this episode is for you. Because keeping those worries secret just makes things worse, and you are NOT alone.

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The Truth About Postpartum Sex: Navigating Intimacy When Your Body Feels Different (Whether It’s Months or Years Later)

The Truth About Postpartum Sex: Navigating Intimacy When Your Body Feels Different (Whether It’s Months or Years Later)

Whether you’re fresh into postpartum or it’s been years since your last baby and your body still feels unfamiliar, you’re not alone. In this episode, I get radically real about intimacy, body image, and feeling sexy in the body you have—right now.

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Take the Solve Your Sex Drive Quiz

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Figure out what’s blocking your sex drive after kids

Initiate a playful low pressure connection date with your partner even if you don’t have the time, energy, or desire for sex